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Create Your
Clutter Free Home Oasis
At Your Own Pace, With Encouragement Every Step of the Way
Finally clear the overwhelm, let go of what no longer serves you, and design the intentional, clutter-free home—and life—you’ve been longing for… without rushing, without pressure, and without doing it alone.
You have helped me so much as I am decluttering and downsizing!
TRESA
The real struggle with clutter isn’t just about the stuff—or even the money.
It’s about the exhaustion of trying to declutter over and over, only to find nothing really works.
It’s the frustration of not knowing where to start or how to make the hard decisions of what to keep and what to let go.
It’s the overwhelming feelings of guilt, anxiety, and even hopelessness that rise up with every drawer opened, every pile faced, every decision deferred.
Clutter isn’t just physical—it’s stuck energy, decision fatigue, and emotional weight. Most people stay trapped in the clutter cycle because they’ve never been shown a clear, simple, grace-filled path forward—one that makes room for real-life emotions and real-life timelines.
In The Oasis Community, you’ll finally have the tools, support, and gentle guidance to move forward—one small step at a time—toward the peaceful, clutter-free life you’ve been longing for.
Why Most People Stay Stuck
vs. How The Oasis Community Helps You Finally Move Forward
The Stuck Cycle
Tossing random items without a plan ("Trash Bag Quick Fix")
Using the slow and tedious "One In, Two Out" rule
Letting others make decluttering decisions for you
Shuffling clutter from one space to another without real progress
Feeling overwhelmed, discouraged, and stuck
The Oasis Community
Get clear on your Home Oasis Vision—your personal blueprint for a peaceful home
Apply the Rule of Four to make quick, confident decisions
Break free from Clutter Code Chains™ and take ownership of your space
Decide where everything goes before you start—eliminating decision fatigue
Follow the proven 5-step Downsizing31™ method—with guidance, encouragement, and zero pressure
Hi, I’m Brenda Parmelee,
I know firsthand the emotional and
practical weight of clutter.
10 years ago, I downsized 50+ years of belongings from a large home into a small motor coach—in just 31 days. But I also know not everyone wants—or needs—to move that fast.
That’s why I created The Oasis Community: a gentle, grace-filled space where you can declutter, downsize, and design your own Home Oasis at a pace that feels right for you. With tools, support, and real encouragement—you’ll never have to do this alone.
The Oasis Community
The Oasis Community is for the person who wants to declutter and downsize—but needs more time, encouragement, and grace along the way. It’s for those who prefer small, steady steps instead of an overwhelming all-at-once approach. If you’re ready to finally let go of what no longer serves you, but know you’ll move further with a clear plan and a supportive community by your side—this is your place.
Inside The Oasis Community
You’ll find the guidance, tools, and gentle accountability to help you create the simpler, clutter-free home you’ve been longing for—without doing it alone.
What You’ll Accomplish
Inside The Oasis Community:
You won’t be spinning your wheels anymore. Here’s what you’ll do instead to finally declutter successfully—and stay clutter-free for good:
Get clear on your personal Home Oasis Vision—so you know exactly what you’re working toward
Use the simple Rule of Four to make confident, stress-free decisions about what stays and what goes
Break through emotional and mental Clutter Code Chains™ that have kept you stuck for years
Know exactly where each item goes before you start—goodbye decision fatigue and overwhelm!
Follow a proven 5-step Downsizing31™ method at your own pace with clear, doable action steps
Receive gentle support, encouragement, and accountability so you never have to do this alone
The Oasis Community:
What’s Inside
A step-by-step
framework based on my Downsizing31™ method
Access to foundational content and trainings to break free from Clutter Code Chains™
Gentle check-ins
and fresh content to
keep you inspired
A monthly live Q&A call
for guidance and
community connection
Private online community
(no Facebook!) for encouragement and support
Freedom to go at your own pace—without judgment and without pressure
Her tried and true principles of downsizing were the foundation I needed to start the sorting process.
I was so relieved when she encouraged me to save the “heart-strings” for last and I am so glad she did. I am in
the final stages of downsizing and finishing up some of those heartstrings. Had I not built the downsizing muscles prior to now, I would not be able to finish well.
Her experience and wisdom guided us to make the best decisions when it came to choosing what to do with our belongings.
MYRNA
Brenda has motivated me in a way that others have not.
Coming from a long line of hoarders, it is not easy to give things up, especially when they are reminders of loved ones. I think the difference in Brenda’s suggestions is that I feel no judgment.
Brenda is a lifesaver, and my children will be so thankful to have organized items to go through when the time comes. Until then, I will live out the rest of my life in a more peaceful, de-cluttered environment.
PJ
The Investment:
Lock in your rate:
Compared to the high costs of professional organizers, storage units, and the ongoing emotional toll of clutter, The Oasis Community is an affordable way to create lasting change. Lock in today's rate for as long as you remain a member — less than the daily cost of a homemade cup of coffee.
$27/month
Flexible month-to-month membership
$270/year
Annual membership
(get 2 months free!)
Clutter isn’t just stuff—it’s stuck energy, decision fatigue, and hidden costs:
Professional organizers charge $50 to $150 an hour—often just to manage things you don’t need to keep.
Storage units cost $50 to $400+ per month.
Moving clutter from place to place racks up unnecessary expenses and stress. And that’s not even including the emotional toll of living in a space that doesn’t feel like home.
What This Isn’t:
This isn’t about perfection or becoming a minimalist—you’ll create your version of a clutter-free life.
This isn’t a “grab a trash bag and toss random stuff” challenge—you’ll follow a proven method that brings real, lasting results.
Enrollment Closing Soon:
Enrollment for The Oasis Community is open now but only for a limited time.
When doors close, they won’t reopen until the next enrollment window. Join before November 1st to lock in Founding Member Pricing and take your first steps toward the calm, intentional, clutter-free home you deserve.
Frequently Asked Questions:
How long will this take me?
You can complete the process in as little as 31 days—or take your time. There’s no rush here. You’ll have ongoing support for as long as you need it.
What is the point of decluttering in a smaller amount of time?
The sooner you get out from under your clutter, the freer you will be. Your life truly becomes transformed and opens up to possibilities you may not have experienced before.
I’m not on Facebook. Can I still participate?
Absolutely. Our private community is not on Facebook, and all live calls are accessible via Zoom.
Do you offer a guarantee?
Due to the nature of digital access and live community support, no refunds are provided. However, you can cancel anytime if it’s not the right fit.
Join The Oasis Community Today
Create your Clutter-Free Home Oasis—at your pace, with the encouragement you need to finally move forward.
